Lowering The Gradients Considering The Personality Of The Woman
When we are speaking about subjects like "relating to women", or "how to relate to women" or "Are you able to relate to women?", I often get asked regarding the best way to begin getting physical with a girl that you have known as a friend for some time.

Getting physical is one thing that usually occurs naturally between a man and a woman over a three month period unless of course one or both of them is really uncomfortable on disinterested.

When a man is uncomfortable with approaching a girl for a physical relationship, the the most important thing that a man can do to take care of that is discover ways to observe and use gradients.

What exactly are gradients? Gradients are like steps on a ladder which you climb to reach the top. Some guys may try to go to the top of the ladder without ascending any of the steps. And that makes the girl uncomfortable and also the guy.

A guy who is not comfortable in this field should learn both how to recognize gradients when women use them and how to make use of gradients on women.

Not all women will start at the same gradient. A few girls will start with a kiss after a first date, and move up gradually or quickly from there - from kissing, to making out, to petting, to heavy petting and ultimately to sexual relations. If a man tries to leap to the "sexual relations" stage without going through the other gradients, he may just lose the girl. However, you can lose a girl because you are moving up the gradients too slowly.

Now other women won't even be up to the gradient of giving you a goodnight kiss until the seventh date. Gradients for her could be: getting to know you, talking about sexual subjects indirectly (for example commiserating regarding an ex-boyfriend), accidental touch (clashing with you as you stroll), purposeful little touches to your arm or leg, holding onto your arm as you stroll, holding your hand, and a goodnight kiss.

If you are uncomfortable with this area and wish to get physical with a girl, flirt with her, romance her, observe where she is on the gradients of sexual contact, then take her up the gradients lightly. As long as you don't skip too many gradients, if she is interested, she will move up the gradients quickly or gradually depending on her personality.

If she is not interested, she probably won't move up. Try lowering the gradient and if she still doesn't budge, try speaking about it. Ask her if she is serious about a relationship with you or if she only wants to be friends.

Also remember that most women won't go out on a "date" with you unless they are already vaguely fine with the concept of getting physical with you. Therefore you might want to make clear if you are dating or simply "hanging out."

Lowering The Gradients Considering The Personality Of The Woman
Getting physical is something that usually occurs naturally between a man and a woman over a three month period unless one or both of them is extremely uncomfortable on disinterested.

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